Sunday, we had the honor of having Pastor Dan Berry, superintendent of the Southeastern District of the Weslyan Church, come to preach. We used his story two weeks ago in the first week of our ”HOPE” series as an example of how quickly tragedy can strike our lives, even the lives of those who love and serve God.
On September 10th of this year Shelly Berry, Dan’s wife, finished her last chemo treatment for the cancer she had been fighting for years. To celebrate the mark, Dan took Shelly to a jewelry store. He told her to pick out a pearl necklace, because pearls represent beauty created out of suffering. She picked out a ring with 2 pearls on it. They went and had a nice dinner, and Shelly was bubbling over with joy and affection for Dan. On their way home that evening, as they were turning into their neighborhood, a driver going 80mph in a 45mph zone “T-boned” into their van on Shelly’s side. Dan woke up upside down to the sound of his wife drowning in her own blood, and he reached his hand out to hold up her head so she could get air. He was pulled from the car and rushed to the hospital with a broken pelvis, ribs, and multiple gashes. Shelly was pulled from the car and airlifted immediately with 2 collapsed lungs, many broken ribs and other fractures. She had also suffered a major head trauma, and in the coming days after several surguries they discovered she had brain damage, and she was not waking up from her coma.
Over the past couple weeks, after millions of prayers and hours spent talking to her, Shelly has begun to respond with simple movements and words! However, she is by no means out of the woods. She was forced to leave the hospital and Pastor Dan had to make the decision to bring her home or send her to a nursing home. Currently, she is at home under 24 hour care. She has now missed the half the holiday season with her family and the birth of her first granddaughter, but yet in all this Pastor Dan still firmly trusts God and has hope for his life.
How is this possible? Pastor Dan honestly shared with us some of his journey over the past months. He said he has screamed at God, cried with Him, and asked Him how and why this happened most of it with no answers. But Pastor Dan finds peace knowing that God is big enough to handle all his anger, all his questions, and all his doubt. He knows God loves Him because of the Cross, and He knows God can turn anything around and use it for good because of the Cross. Pastor Dan also encouraged us to follow scripture and approach everything with prayer and thanksgiving, trusting and believing that prayer is powerful. Pastor Dan has seen first hand the power of prayer of the past months and he encouraged us to get on our knees in life. He also shared with us the importance of the church body. For most of his life he has spent time giving hope out but over the past months he has received hope from the church and it has stirrred his heart and opened his eyes to a new beauty that is the Bride of Christ.
To conclude we sang “To The Throne,” an original song written by our worship leader Hunter Wright:
One life, one time
To live, to shine
Today we choose, to follow after You
To the throne, of my King
I will run, I will cling.
The promises of my God
Stand firm above the world
You reign on high
Sustain my life
Your words are my guide
Your will is my life
Its all in Your hands
My dreams, Your plans
Lord my one desire is You lifted high
So be lifted high.
You are my God You are my Rock
You my Source, my Living Hope
My Strength, my Shield, my debt fulfilled
My Savior King, my everything